The Black Friday shopping frenzy has escalated in recent years as mobs of shoppers have turned aggressive and even violent in the search for savings.
My family stopped shopping on Black Friday several years ago. It simply got too crowded and too dangerous.
But for those of you who still shop on Black Friday, here are some safety tips to help keep you safe while you’re finding those great deals.
I realize that the level of danger will differ from town to town. And not all of these safety tips will apply to you. But it’s still good to be aware and ready, just in case. Anyone, anywhere can become a victim of theft and/or an attack.
And remember, I’m not suggesting that you become paranoid. And, no, I’m not being paranoid either. I’m simply giving you tips and suggestions to keep in mind to help you have a safe and enjoyable shopping experience.
Before You Leave the House
Take a self defense class. Learn some awareness skills and a few self defense techniques. They can come in handy all year.
Have your cell phone fully charged and on. Put it in a secure pocket where you can feel it vibrate. You may not be able to hear it ring if the store is noisy.
If you can, avoid taking a wallet or purse. Instead, wear clothing that gives you lots of secured pockets to carry your ID, credit cards, money, etc.. Separate the items into different, secured pockets.
But don’t carry anything in your back pocket, even if it can be secured. Some thieves carry box cutters and will cut your pocket to get at the contents.
If you do carry a purse, keep it fastened and carry it close to your body.
Wear comfortable, easy-to-run in shoes.
If you drive an SUV, take blankets or coats to cover your purchases or invest in a cargo cover.
Leave the kids with the sitter
Your kids will be safer with a sitter than in a crowded mall/store. If you do take children make sure they know your name and cell phone number. Have current pictures in your phone just in case.
Tell them to stay close to you at ALL times. Don’t allow them to go to the restroom alone. And don’t allow them to go to the car by themselves or to wait in the car.
Give them a whistle and tell them to use it (ONLY) if they get separated from you. Tell them to go to a store clerk or security guard and ask for help if they get lost.
Teach them what to do if a stranger approaches or grabs them. (Kick, scratch, bite, loudly yell something like “You’re not my mom/dad!” “I don’t know you!” and “You’re a stranger!”)
Shop with other people
Shop with friends/family who can watch your back. You’ll have more eyes for awareness, more hands for carrying packages and you’ll be less interesting to thieves/thugs.
Stick together the best you can and be ready to defend each other or make a break for it if something bad happens.
Share cell phone numbers so you can keep in contact. Because cell phone service can be spotty in some stores, make a plan to meet at a specific time and place to gather if you get separated.
When You Arrive at the Store/Mall
Write down any aisle number, landmark, store entrance you are nearest to, and anything else that can help you remember where you parked.
Wandering around the parking lot can make you a target for thugs/thieves. (As an alternative, utilize the mall’s valet service if one it available.)
Look around before you get out of your car and again after. Check for suspicious activity.
This can help you become less of a target for thugs/thieves. They don’t like people who are aware of their surroundings.
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If you are parked in an enclosed parking garage, take note of where the exits are in case you need to escape.
Don’t ignore any barricades the store/s may have set up. They are there for your safety.
When the Doors Open
Maintain situational awareness. If you see ANY HINT of mob behavior beginning to occur, leave!
Mobs have no conscience. You have to be responsible for your own safety. Don’t get drawn into a verbal or physical altercation. Leave the area or get help from security.
When you enter each store, take time to locate the exits. Look for potential paths of escape and for barriers you can hide behind if escape is impossible. If violence breaks out, you need to be able to respond quickly.
Get out if you can. Barricade/Hide yourself if you can’t.
Protect Your Valuables
Be wary of ANY stranger approaching you. If they’re able to get close, it’s easy to steal your valuables. Also, if they decide to shove or hit you before they grab your stuff, you won’t have enough time to react to the threat.
Move away from them. Keep your distance as much as possible. If they follow you, make eye contact and tell them to stay away.
Seek help from Security or store personnel. If it turns out you misread the situation, hey, you can always apologize. Better to be embarrassed than to be a victim of violence or theft.
Thieves look for distracted and overburdened shoppers. And they sometimes work in teams. One grabs your attention while the other grabs your valuables. Keep your valuables secured and be aware at all times.
Thieves want to avoid confrontation. If you appear sure of yourself and aware of your surroundings, you will be a less attractive target.
If you stop at a food court, don’t hang your purse on the back of the chair. Instead, put it in your lap. Even putting it on the table can be bad.
All it takes is for you to get distracted and someone can grab it and run before you realize what’s happened.
Don’t take your cell phone out of your purse/pocket unless you have to. It’s easy for a thief to grab it and run.
Don’t get overloaded with packages
When you carry a lot of bags and packages, it’s easier for thieves to rip them from your grasp. It’s also difficult to defend yourself when your hands are full.
Check to see if the store/mall offers a safe storage for packages. Or take them to your car.
If you take your purchases to your car, follow the tips under “Your Shopping Day is Done” below. Secure the packages in the trunk. If you don’t have a trunk, cover them with blankets, coats, cargo cover, etc.
Then move your car to a different parking spot to help deter any thieves who may be watching and planning to steal your stuff after you go back inside.
Remember to write down where your new parking space is. Look around before getting back out of your car to make sure there is no suspicious activity.
Paying for Your Purchases
Don’t take cash out until you are ready to pay. Count your change at the register and secure it in a pocket before walking away.
If you pay with a Debit Card, cover the keypad when you enter your PIN.
Never leave your wallet/purse on the counter as you are cashing out. It’s way too easy for a thief to grab it and run.
If you need to use an ATM, make sure it is in a well-populated, well-lit area. Cover the keypad when you enter your PIN. And always take your receipt with you.
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If you buy a large item that requires you picking it up at an isolated area at the side or rear of the store (like a loading bay), ask them to provide security for you until the item is loaded and you leave the area.
Your Shopping Day is Done
It’s the end of your shopping day. And you’ve either crossed everything off your shopping list, or you’ve run out of money. Either way, it’s time to head home.
Before leaving the store/mall, have your car keys in your hand. Look at your notes about where you parked your car.
As you leave the store, look around for suspicious activity outside the store and near your car. Check to see if you’re being followed.
If you feel unsafe, go back inside and ask security or a store employee to escort you to your car.
Remain aware as you walk to your car. Remain aware of your surroundings as you secure your packages in your car.
Once you get inside your car, immediately lock the doors.
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Watch for vehicles following you, especially if you purchased expensive items. If you think you are being followed, don’t go home. Go to a police station for help.
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Once you get home, look around for strangers lurking around your driveway/home. If it’s safe, bring all of your purchases into the house.
Congratulations! You made it through Black Friday shopping unscathed and safe.
Now, if only your credit card will quit smoking from over-use!